Mundane and Proud: Embracing the Beauty of Ordinary

Tolulope Jasmine Akintaro
3 min readNov 29, 2024

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A graphic image with writings Mundane and proud. the word MUNDANE is written upside-down.

Let’s face it, we live in a world that constantly tells us to strive for greatness. We’re bombarded with messages about being the best, the most successful, the most extraordinary. But what if you’re tired of chasing those unrealistic expectations? What if you find peace in being, well, just okay? Welcome to the “Mediocre and Proud” club, where embracing the ordinary is not only acceptable but celebrated!

First things first — let’s debunk the myth that you have to be extraordinary to lead a fulfilling life. Social media and society at large often highlight only the peak moments of success, making it seem like everyone else is achieving monumental things while you’re just getting through the day. The truth? Those extraordinary moments are rare, even for the people who post about them. Most of life happens in the in-between, the mundane, and the routine. And that’s perfectly okay.

Being mediocre doesn’t mean you don’t have achievements; it just means you find joy in different kinds of victories. Did you finally master that tricky yoga pose? Did you manage to get through your inbox without feeling overwhelmed? Celebrate it! Small wins add up to a meaningful life, and acknowledging them is key to maintaining your mental well-being.

When you let go of the pressure to be extraordinary, you start to appreciate the present moment more. Instead of constantly thinking about what’s next or comparing yourself to others, you can focus on what’s happening now. Whether it’s enjoying a cup of finely brewed Chinese tea, having a genuine conversation with a friend, or simply taking a walk, these moments become more profound when you stop striving for more.

Redefining Success

Success doesn’t have to mean fame, fortune, or groundbreaking achievements. It can be as simple as finding a job you like, building meaningful relationships, or taking care of your mental and physical health. When you redefine success on your terms, you free yourself from the exhausting race to meet society’s often unrealistic standards.

A young man or woman sitting on the floor with hands folded to hug oneself from the legs. the face is buried in the hug to reflect tiredness or shame. An inscription is written on the image saying, “There is nothing wrong with being mediocre.”.

Being mediocre and proud means being authentic. It’s about being true to yourself, your likes, dislikes, strengths, and weaknesses. When you embrace who you are, you attract people who appreciate the real you, not a curated version of yourself. Authenticity builds stronger, more meaningful connections with others.

Embracing mediocrity doesn’t mean settling; it means finding contentment and peace in who you are. This mindset can inspire others to do the same. When people see you living authentically and finding joy in the ordinary, it creates a ripple effect. Your acceptance of yourself encourages others to let go of their pressures and embrace their true selves.

So, let’s raise a glass to being mediocre and proud. Let’s celebrate the beauty of the ordinary, the joy of small wins, and the power of authenticity. In a world that constantly pushes us to be more, let’s find peace in being enough.

Remember, life is not a competition. It’s a journey, and every step, no matter how small, is worth celebrating. Embrace the mediocre, and you might just find that it’s where the true magic happens.

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